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New Year is Near: Please Read this. FS

fastsleeper

Why ya treat me like that?
NAILS IN THE FENCE

Make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence.

(Most importantly the last sentence)

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all.

He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, 'You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. *When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.

You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. But It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound will still be there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Remember that friends are very rare jewels,indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us.'

It's National Friendship Week.
Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you
consider a FRIEND, even if it means sending it back to the person who
sent it to you! If it comes back to you, you will then know you have a circle
of friends.

YOU ARE MY FRIEND AND I AM HONORED!

Now send this to every friend you have!! And to your family (they need to know that you love them too).

Please forgive me if I have ever left a 'hole' in your fence.


Even though I have not met you I really do consider you ALL my friends.
Sincerely,
FS
 
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Mustangcwo

Guest
I have driven a lot of nails in my day, but men are not made from sugar and spice. Sometimes a good pounding on someones fence builds a strong foundation. There is little need to leave lasting scars and even less need to be left unblemished.

Thanks for the post FS. It makes me wonder if sometimes I drove one to many nails into some of those boys.
 

fastsleeper

Why ya treat me like that?
I have driven a lot of nails in my day, but men are not made from sugar and spice. Sometimes a good pounding on someones fence builds a strong foundation. There is little need to leave lasting scars and even less need to be left unblemished.

Thanks for the post FS. It makes me wonder if sometimes I drove one to many nails into some of those boys.

Something for all to ponder. I know I have a fence about 105 miles long.
FS
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Xodus989

Well-Known Member
Something for all to ponder. I know I have a fence about 105 miles long.
FS
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You know what though, now that you think about how long your fence is, you're going to think about what you're going to say a lot more and will become much better. What's wrong with the fence analogy and the holes though, is that people forgive and will grow back close to you. What does wood do? It sits and does nothing.

People will forgive what you say and the "scars" will heal.

Good luck FS. If you want to talk PM me :)

Xodus
 

IgottaV8

Wickedstangs Road Racing Team
Staff member
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And you can always get a new piece of wood to replace the one with all the holes, or just fill it with glue and paint over it.
 

fastsleeper

Why ya treat me like that?
Ballet

I have driven a lot of nails in my day, but men are not made from sugar and spice. Sometimes a good pounding on someones fence builds a strong foundation. There is little need to leave lasting scars and even less need to be left unblemished.

Thanks for the post FS. It makes me wonder if sometimes I drove one to many nails into some of those boys.

Well, I wrote a very introspective response to your response and I pressed the incorrect key and it disappeared. fk I hate when that happens!
FS
 
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